Introduction:
Our first two tools are about our hearts and our faith. Courage is our integrity of heart that is seen through our words and actions. Stubbornness is an anchor that keeps us sure and steadfast in our faith and commitment to Jesus. This week’s tool, openness, connects us to the world around us. Like a pair of pliers, openness has two handles, listening and learning. Like a pair of pliers, openness won’t work without both its handles.
Listening means we put some spiritual duct tape over our mouths so that we listen with both our ears and our hearts to another. We seek to understand, not just their words, but the person. This won’t happen if we are interrupting, or worse, not paying attention because we are focused on our responses and come backs to the other person.
The openness to listen is connected to the openness to learn. When we listen, we grow in our understanding of others, their lives, our world, and God. This kind of learning is so much bigger than “facts.” It’s a kind of learning that creates wonder and humility. It gives us the wisdom we need to live out our faith in community and to use our tools of courage and stubbornness well.