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Together in Community
Check in with one another.
If there are 6 or more in the group, then share high’s and low’s in small groups of 2 or 3.
- If there is a new person, welcome them and introduce group members.
- (High) Share something good or eventful that you give thanks and praise for?
Open in Prayer
We thank you God for bringing us together. We give thanks and praise for the good gifts you have given us. For the concerns and challenges we experience, help us to give them to you in the confidence of your loving care for us. In our sharing and listening, open us to your presence. Amen.
5 Minutes with God—Spiritual Practice
(Optional)
INTRODUCTION: “Little children,” John tells us, “let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action.” In other words, actions speak louder than words, especially when it comes to our faith. When Jesus says to take up our crosses daily and follow him, his first followers knew this very graphic and terrifying image. They knew firsthand the horror of crucifixion. When we put this altogether, we realize that the love we are called to as people of faith is truthful, hands on, demanding, and costly.
SPIRITUAL PRACTICE: What is hard for you to do? What is your cross to take up? Perhaps it’s not always needing to “be right.” It could be listening to that lonely individual tell the same story yet again. It might be standing up for truth in the face of criticism. This week pay attention to those times you feel an inner pushback to a person or situation. Is this a “take up your cross and follow me” moment? How can you take up this cross with love?
Discover Scripture and Life
Introduction: The message of Jesus is both who Jesus is as God's Son, and what Jesus does in showing God's love. As followers, we take seriously the message of God's love in Jesus.
Bible
1 John 3:16-24
16We know love by this, that he laid down his life for us — and we ought to lay down our lives for one another. 17How does God's love abide in anyone who has the world's goods and sees a brother or sister in need and yet refuses help? 18Little children, let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action….23And this is his commandment, that we should believe in the name of his Son Jesus Christ and love one another, just as he has commanded us. 24All who obey his commandments abide in him, and he abides in them. And by this we know that he abides in us, by the Spirit that he has given us.
Luke 9:3;24-27
3Then he said to them all, "If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. 24For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will save it. 25What does it profit them if they gain the whole world, but lose or forfeit themselves? 26Those who are ashamed of me and of my words, of them the Son of Man will be ashamed when he comes in his glory and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels. 27But truly I tell you, there are some standing here who will not taste death before they see the kingdom of God."
Chapter Highlights
• Taking Jesus’ message seriously means churches pay attention to the life and words of Christ. Young people can then articulate a Gospel that is loess talk about beliefs and more talk about Jesus, less tied to formulas and more focused on redemptive narrative, and less about heaven later and more about life here and now.
• Young people want to know not only what they are saved from but also what they are saved for. They want to take action, not just hear about what they cannot do. Participation and challenge are key to growing young.
• Evangelism isn’t dead among people, but it looks different than in the past century. Vital factors to help young people share faith today include building authentic relationships, listening well, and being honest about questions and doubts.
Opening Discovery
1. When you were growing up, was the church message more about what NOT to do? Or about what to do? Was the emphasis on the Don’ts or the Do’s?
2. When did your faith become more personal or meaningful? What contributed to that shift?
More about the Scripture
1. What does it mean to you to “take up your cross and follow Jesus?”
2. How is following the way of Jesus something more than being nice to people, a “golden rule kind of religion?”
3. Do you think following the way of Jesus is something easy or challenging to do?
More about Life
1. What words and phrases does FLC use to talk about Jesus, the gospel and evangelism? Brainstorm as a group. Create a group list.
2. What opportunities or people have you had that provided space for you to express doubts and struggles about faith? What struggles or doubts to you have now?
3. What one or two shifts might FLC want to take when it comes to helping young people explore and grow in faith? Create a group list.
Together in Prayer
1. As you look to the coming week, what is one word that summarizes how you are feeling.
2. Do you have any prayer concern that you would like to share? What is it?
Closing Prayer
Pray for the concerns shared in the group. Close in the Lord’s Prayer.
You may also use this prayer.
O God, we thank you for this time we have shared. We bring before you the joys and concerns of our heart. We pray especially for….. Grant us your healing and peace, in Jesus name. Amen.
Lord’s Prayer
Lord remember us in your kingdom and teach us to pray: Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever and ever. Amen.